When you find yourself ambivalent and unable to make a decision, take a deep breath.  Place your hand on your heart, shift the focus from your mind to your heart as this is your seat of wisdom.  Breathe as if you are breathing in and out through your heart.  Calm you mind.  Calm your fears.  When you know you have many talents and you could pursue a variety of paths, but find it difficult to choose, know this: YOU ARE FREE TO CHOOSE ANY PATH.  

That’s right dear ones, you are free to choose any path.  You will be supported in any path you choose.  So just pick one.  It doesn’t really matter.  Just choose.  Narrow the field of choices by eliminating the paths that bring you stress or unease.  Then choose the path that feels lighter, better, happier, and more joyful.  Hear this: DON’T LOOK BACK.  Keep moving forward.  

Yes, you read that correctly.  Don’t look back.  When you look back, you are second guessing your decision, you are doubting the validity of your choice, you fear you may have chosen incorrectly.  If you manifest murky results, it is due to looking back, it is due to your own ambivalence. IT IS NOT BECAUSE YOU CHOSE WRONG.

Like a leaf falling from a tree, simply let go of the past.  Let go of expectations that others may hold of you, let go of your expectations of how you think things should be…just let go.  Allow the new and wondrous things to flow right to you.  Each morning (and multiple times a day) say this: Dear Spirit (use any word you like here), BRING ME THE BEST POSSIBLE OUTCOME AND SURPRISE ME WITH HOW EASY AND JOYFUL IT CAN BE.

Finally, go do something fun.  Stop fretting.  Stop worrying.  Enjoy your life.  Good things flow with ease when your essence is at ease.  And, if you find after all of this that you are unhappy with where you are, guess what?  CHOOSE AGAIN.  No regrets.  No looking back.  Congratulations, you have just eliminated another choice!

Healing Mantras if you feel so called to say them:

·      I release all fears related to making decisions.

·      I release any fears that will choose wrong and create unhappiness or pain.

·      I release any fears that others will judge me for my choices.

·      I accept I am a marvelous spiritual being having a human experience and I simply cannot “do it wrong”.  Everything is an opportunity to learn and grow.

·      I accept I am a powerful creator, when my focus is aligned with my actions, things happen magically.